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March 15th, 2014 at 02:08 am

Hard to note the deposit in the Anniversary Account with everything that is going on. But now is more important then ever to save. So might as well leave the auto deposits on and keep socking away until things are set..either way.

Today he was so nice....I mean he is always nice...but I could tell he was really making an extra effort to make me feel better. Offered to bring me lunch at work, take me to Red Lobster for dinner, cuddles after work (I love to nap and cuddle, he is not much of a napper at all), told me I am the skinniest since he has over known me (really getting out the big guns one the compliment train)....lol. But I'm not falling for the upside of the rollercoaster again...I can't...it hurts to bad when I realize I'm falling down the hill again. So I enjoyed the day, but am not looking at it as anything more then that...a nice day.


New Focus = Home Maintenance $5300/$7000

Current Balance $30,125.00
+$140.00 to Home Maintenance
-$112.00 to Roth IRA
+$100.00 to Retirement hold account
+$2.00 Even Out Amounts
+$100.00 Anniversary Cruise
Balance $30,355.00

ING $26,615.00
Home Improvements(cash)$440.00
HSBC $3300.00
Total = $30,355.00

Posted in $20K challenge | 5 Comments »

5 Responses to “$20K Update”

  1. creditcardfree Says:
    March 15th, 2014 at 02:23 am 1394850190
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    I'm glad today was a good day! Maybe the phone call from friend made a difference.

  2. snafu Says:
    March 15th, 2014 at 03:44 pm 1394898256
    1394898256

    Please enjoy the series of compliments and pleasant behaviour for however long it continues but keep a tiny segment prepared for change. I don't know anything about alcoholism but I wonder if you've sought support from Al Anon and the information those experienced folks can share.

    Brilliant to continue auto deposits, it's comfortable, it's routine and it's important to squirrel away funds in this uncertain emotional environment.

  3. Banker Gurl Says:
    March 15th, 2014 at 06:24 pm 1394907897
    1394907897

    CCF - Hopefully!

    Snafu - Yes I definitely have my guard up and will not be letting it down for some time.....my mother has also had a relationship with someone with alcoholism issues and she has suggested Al Anon. It is something I will be looking into further.

  4. Lena Says:
    March 16th, 2014 at 03:34 am 1394940881
    1394940881

    Any chance your DH is bipolar? I don't know, but his constant up and downs make me think SOMETHING is up. And I know A LOT of people with bipolar disorder self medicate. Hugs to you!

  5. CB in the City Says:
    March 17th, 2014 at 12:54 am 1395017695
    1395017695

    You know, Al-Anon is a great idea. I went many years ago because my dad was an alcoholic. It does really help to talk to others who are dealing with the same problem.

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