Continuing to get things done in the process of getting divorced.
-Opened my own checking
-Opened my own savings in town
-Opened my own ING Savings
-Helped DH open his ING Savings
-Closed HSBC Savings into ING Savings
-Opened my own Discover Card
-Potential roommate came and looked at the house and will be getting back to me on if/when she can move in, she needs to talk to her current roommates to figure this out.
-Appraisal came in on house so now just waiting for the closing date for the house to be done
Definitely getting things moving. Things with X have not been going great. I have been seeing a guy friend I knew 10 yrs ago who randomly came back into my life. I wasn't expecting this, but he is a great relief right now to have someone to talk to. He has also been divorced and has been giving me a lot of advice and guidance on dealing with things and also been nice to have someone to make me laugh and smile. X is less then thrilled with this....understandable....but YOU are the one that wanted the divorce so what did you think was going to happen?? Well, anyways I wanted to check in with everyone on how I am doing. Been super busy but doing alright and things are moving in the right direction.
Update on ME
June 27th, 2014 at 06:22 am
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June 27th, 2014 at 04:21 pm 1403882469
Oops no damsel in distress, you've managed the tasks, cleaned the fridge, deep freeze, hot tub and more. Al Anon and prepping for next sale and I'm ever hopeful to see 'lawyer' consultation pop up soon.
June 27th, 2014 at 06:02 pm 1403888579
June 27th, 2014 at 06:26 pm 1403889979
Snafu - He has 99% of his stuff out. It's more of finding things as I am cleaning that are his or he should be taking. Then I box them up and put them by the door so they are out of here asap. This weekend is very busy but will have him pick them up next week.
June 27th, 2014 at 08:54 pm 1403898895
Careful on getting involved again before the divorce is finalized. Also, have a close look at this guy's history and why he is divorced. You don't want another abusive alcoholic to trample your self-esteem that you have worked so hard to build.
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