The closing date is set for the house for 7/31. Many mixed feelings in regards to that. Happy to be getting it done and another piece in the puzzle in place towards moving on in my life. Sad and solemn for another step towards that part of my life being over forever.
For the most part been doing good. Lots of fun new activities with BF. Going to Lady Antebellem concert tonight! Still hard moments and days for sure. BF is helping me work through things and it is nice to have support, though sometimes I do have to remind him that I am still broken and cannot be as excited and happy for the new cause I am still very much mourning the old. Had a breakdown a few days ago(just a lot of junk fell on me on one day)....but previously those were daily and I haven't had one in a month....so definitely going in the right direction.
I have most of the divorce papers filled out. Will be working on those more again this weekend and plan to file them immediatley after the house closing.
I cancelled my old direct deposit and set up the new one, so my paycheck is going into my own checking account instead of the joint account.
The potential roomate seems pretty flaky and has not been getting back to me, which is weird cause she came and looked at it and loved it and I ran into one of her friends and she said "Oh yeah she called me and told me how excited she was to move in..etc." So not sure what that is about, but I am going to start looking into other options for a roomate.
Closing date is set for the house and other updates on me
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