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It's official - I am a divorcee

August 21st, 2014 at 02:32 pm

Got the papers in the mail yesterday. I am no longer married.

I called the gym and got our memberships seperated and mine put onto my own CC and let X know he will need to do so as well. Also called my health insurance to find out what I need to do to have him removed. Will be doing that in about a week as X was picking his plan and I don't want him to have a lapse in coverage.

Last night I went through all of my files (back to 2004) and got out all of X's papers (CC bills that were only in his name, resumes, car titles, medical claims, etc.) and put them in a bag for him. Also got the last few items of his from the basement brought up and put in the garage. One of his friends is coming to pick it up tonight. I think that is everything physical out of the house now.

Other then a few things to still seperate (cell phones, Netflix, car insurance etc.) we are done. Contact should be extremely limited going forward.

9 Responses to “It's official - I am a divorcee”

  1. laura Says:

    Well ... you will be able to move on to the next chapter, which is looking good from what I read. So ... I wish you peace. Smile

  2. creditcardfree Says:

    I hope are doing okay. It seems you have been able to move forward pretty quick and the less contact you have should make it easier to move forward.

  3. CB in the City Says:

    I think you will find it easier now that the divorce is official. You've done a good job of getting everything separated. You don't have kids, so you can put that ex out of the picture now!

  4. Another Reader Says:

    Great turnaround for you from a couple of months ago. My guess is that Al-Anon helped you see things more clearly. He's no longer future XH, he's just XH now.

  5. Petunia 100 Says:

    That was so fast! My divorce took 8 months to be final.

    It only gets better from here. {{hugs}}

  6. My English Castle Says:

    Yep, I'm with everyone sending you best wishes. I wouldn't be surprised to find myself sad still occasionally about this. But you're doing really well. Forward (as we say in Cheeseland)!

  7. Banker Gurl Says:

    Thanks all! I am still sad a LOT. I have many things to look forward to and my BF is great. But I still feel in shock at the way my life has turned and at the complete lack of emotion from X. I do feel I am doing as well as I could be and am working at getting things seperated, getting ready for the rummage sale, and moving forward with BF. We started a coed softball team together, have a concert this weekend and have the Laughlin trip to look forward to in October. Last night he spent 2 hrs fixing things at my house and go more accomplished in 2 hrs then X did in 7 years. Pretty eye opening.
    Appreciate everyones thoughts and hugs! Cheers to many more happy updates and an end to this long, long time of sad ones. Smile

  8. Tabs Says:

    I am going to say congratulations. Congratulations for not dragging out something that was not working for you, and congratulations to a new chapter in your life and a better tomorrow.

    Take care.

  9. Banker Gurl Says:

    Thanks Tabs!

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